We like simple explanations: “I started using hormonal contraception and lost my desire for sex.” But desire is probably one of the most complex phenomena of human sexuality. Hormones influence it, yes, but so do stress, relationship quality, mental health, mental load, rest, or life stage.

While I was reading a news article about theoutfit an accurate one from one of Leticia's two daughters – who seem to grow bigger every day, while she seems to shrink – an advertisement appeared to me. The text, in Spanish, read as follows: “Does it make you enjoy when you get their tastes right at the table? Imagine when you also get it right in bed. Enjoy what makes you enjoy”. They were condoms from the reputable brand Control, with hyaluronic acid (which keeps the skin soft and young).