It is love, protection, and welcome; but it does not give it. It is care, attention, and dedication; but it is absent. This is the mother who is physically present, but does not show the values that are implicit with her. Not having her because she has died is an intense and painful absence; knowing she is here and feeling her far away is also grief. The mother, who can be everything, when she does not provide shelter – when, deep down, there is no mother – causes a void in the child, who will realize it over the years. Dysfunctions that will manifest in very diverse ways, such as insecurities and emotional friction: by looking at them, fortunately, they can be transformed.