According to psychologist and sexologist Elena Crespi, there are two questions you should ask yourself if you want to choose a partner and get it right. "Do I like this person? Is this person right for me? You should be able to answer yes to both questions: the partner you choose should be both appealing and right for you," she states emphatically. Too often, she explains, falling in love blinds us to what the other person is really like, we don't share values, or we fall into unbalanced relationships. That's why, when she met Xevi –Stick For friends, she reassured herself that the person she was falling in love with was real, and not a figment of her imagination or expectations. That is, that she liked him and that he was also good for her.