The birth of Carla (45) and Jordi's (44) first child put a significant strain on the relationship between the couple and his mother: "Especially during the postpartum period, her lack of empathy and her desire for prominence was incredible. I didn't understand this absurd power struggle and felt it was a lack of respect." Now that Martí is 9 years old and is no longer the only clean one, the situation has eased, although some conflicts still remain. At first, Martí's mother-in-law didn't respect any of the rules that were important to Martí's parents: "She knew we didn't want him to have sugar and at 4 months old she was already giving him a croissant, she skipped sleep guidelines, if we told her he had just fallen asleep she wouldn't stop until the baby opened his eyes..." It was a challenge!