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    <title><![CDATA[Ara in English - respectful parenting]]></title>
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      <title><![CDATA[Why forcing a child to apologize can be counterproductive?]]></title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><img src="https://static1.ara.cat/clip/ee5d17d6-2fa4-4acb-a16f-f198c38b162e_16-9-aspect-ratio_default_0_x2647y1140.jpg" /></p><p>Asking for forgiveness is a gesture that dignifies the one who does it, comforts the one who receives it, and opens the door to restoring damaged bonds. Whoever takes the step learns to empathize with those who have suffered the consequences of their wrongdoing. Afterwards, the relationship between the two will benefit. However, not everything is immediate. Accepting it also costs. Emotions disorient, time is needed, and it is not enough to say it from emptiness. Some refuse to ask for forgiveness because they associate it with the moral repentance of some religions; but, far from it, forgiveness is in tune with essential human values and the idea of virtue. Children and young people, obviously, are not excluded from being able to experience it. All that is needed is good accompaniment.</p>]]></description>
      <dc:creator><![CDATA[Bàrbara Julbe]]></dc:creator>
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      <pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 08 May 2026 05:07:28 +0000]]></pubDate>
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      <media:title><![CDATA[Reconciled brothers.]]></media:title>
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      <subtitle><![CDATA[It is common for families to demand that their children apologize immediately when they have caused a grievance, but in order not to trivialize the gesture, it is first necessary to understand that harm has been caused]]></subtitle>
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      <title><![CDATA["I'm afraid of the possibility of harming my children."]]></title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><img src="https://static1.ara.cat/clip/6d7ec1d2-87da-4df7-ba0e-061414c42718_16-9-aspect-ratio_default_0_x2867y659.jpg" /></p><p>For men, the process of becoming fathers is a profound transformation, fraught with opportunities. Recent studies show that fathers who maintain close and prolonged contact with their babies experience increases in hormones linked to care and bonding, such as oxytocin and prolactin. They also show brain transformations.</p>]]></description>
      <dc:creator><![CDATA[Francesc Orteu]]></dc:creator>
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      <pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 01 Jul 2025 08:49:15 +0000]]></pubDate>
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      <media:title><![CDATA[Carlos Pitillas]]></media:title>
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      <subtitle><![CDATA[Psychologist, psychotherapist specializing in childhood and youth, and father of two children, one 3 years old and the other a few months old. He published "Walking in Footprints: Bonds, Trauma, and Human Development" (Desclée de Brouwer), a manual that describes how a baby's first relationships with their environment shape how they relate to the world throughout their development.]]></subtitle>
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