"I'll bring you some nipple shields because you won't be able to breastfeed properly with those nipples"; "If you can't breastfeed, it's okay, we'll bring her a bottle"; "Your milk isn't nourishing her enough, we'll bring you some formula milk supplements." These are some of the phrases that women hear most often when they are trying to breastfeed. What is supposed to be a calm moment to be able to figure out how to feed their baby with their own body becomes a coming and going of people who give their opinions with the intention of helping but, in the end, without stopping to listen and find out what the mother needs.