Infidelity is one of the most painful experiences a couple can go through. Not only because a pact is broken, but because insecurities and feelings of betrayal arise, and all the trust built up to that point is questioned. It is common to feel anger, sadness, humiliation, or confusion.

When a relationship ends, we often look for quick fixes to stop suffering: zero contact, staying busy, going out more, deleting photos. And all of this can help. But the reality is that there is no magic key to getting over a breakup.

Taylor Swift had already given – at length – her version of the six years of her relationship with Joe Alwyn in her last album and this Saturday it was the actor's turn. He spoke about it in an interview in Sunday Times Style Magazine two months after the singer published the album The tortured poets department, a title that fans consider to be a reference to the WhatsApp group that Alwyn shares with other actors such as Paul Mescal and Andrew Scott and which is named afterThe tortured man club. After all the details of the relationship released by Swift, the actor Kinds of Kindess She has spoken about the impact of appearing in the media, the difficulty of breaking up, and Swift's current, very public relationship with American football player Travis Kelce.